Cheers to Another Year of Life!!

Today marks my 43rd birthday, and I could not be more thankful. I did a lot of reflecting last night while my family was asleep. I thought about how far God has brought me. I thought about my relationship with God, and just how much he has truly kept me sane. When I think of the loss I have experienced from my loved ones to my family house I grew up in catching on fire, and other disappointments, I could have lost my mind.

When I came home from college, I wanted to branch out on my own and forge my own life into adulthood. I ended up having a late start in this because I wanted to be there for my grandmother who was still raising my cousins during their early teen years. I am glad God made it turn out that way, but there were times when I was impatient and wanted to live my life the same way I saw my friends doing. I loved being there for my family, but at the same time, I wanted to be free from the obligations I felt I had. When people told me that I would be blessed for that sacrifice I didn't understand at the time. As my life has progressed, I can honestly say that those blessings have come to fruition.

When I tell you I have had some dark, challenging times, physically, emotionally, and mentally....it's an understatement. I've had some VERY challenging times financially too...some self-inflicted from poor decisions, and others, just a part of life I suppose. Every set back I've had, every job I have lost, God replaced it with something bigger, and better...EACH TIME. God placed people in my life that I never knew or had any idea I would need. So when you see me prospering, they had a lot to do with it.

I would not be anywhere without my support system. To my friends and my family that allows me to express myself without judgment, I appreciate you so much. The grace God has given me, I truly do not deserve. I have an amazing family. To my wife and my son, there is truly no me without you both. You all are truly the 2 biggest pieces of my heart. Please forgive me for the times I have fallen short of being the leader that you both need. Thank you for your patience, and your willingness to allow me to keep trying. Thank you for everything you do for me every day even when it's not easy or convenient.

In conclusion, I implore you to appreciate your loved ones. I encourage you to spend quality time with people that value you, and that you value. Sincere and loving reciprocation is rewarding. In all honesty, we are all here on borrowed time. You do not want to live regretting not loving someone the way you should have while they were here. Happy Born Day to ME!

God Bless!